"Their togetherness has taught us to attain milestones in life"

#Day2 Lockdown 4.0

Although am not yet qualified to deal with these subjects, I've observed and have known "the philosophy of marriage", "the reason for wanting to get married?", "expectations arising out of marriage?" and "the essential foundations". Taking you back to the formal language for delivering what are my impressions and reflections happened today.

Marriage

Marriage is an institution ordained by God, and a basic building block of decent societies. Christians believe that marriage is a gift from God, one that should not be taken for granted.

Marriage is the right atmosphere to engage in sexual relations and to build a family life. Getting married in a church, in front of God, is very important. A marriage is a public declaration of love and commitment. This declaration is made in front of friends and family in a church ceremony. Henceforth, it will be a part of a completely new entity comprised of two individuals that are progressively blending together into one. Wow! Marriage is not just a ceremony because there is a deep longing for profound fellowship and perfect understanding in each and every human being.

Occasion

Therefore some who are holding your patience and spending few minutes for my sake might wonder "why is this guy blabbering around?". To break the silence, 19 May was the day, when my beloved parents held their hands in front of the Almighty God, the ministers of God (pastors), families, elders of the society and whole crowd wished them whole-heartedly which was also pleasing in the eyes of God who made them to travel for about "vingt-six ans".

I wondered for many years, dumbstruck and even fought with my dad for handling my mom very softly if she had wrong in her part. Behind the doors, he rebukes, loves and teaches her, which I later realised. Giving his spouse, the equal rights and respect although he is more qualified and elder for 9 years. Basically my mother married his own "Murai Maman" (Father's sister's son) which made her marriage secured and happy all these years.

Children will follow parent's example, not their advice in most of the times.

All through these years, across many struggles and insufficiencies they have started their life and at this point being as an inspiration to their own children, family and their societies, giving their best for building this family. Their only strength which made them to be persistent was the love and power of God which they had. Many circumstances they were pushed to face and helpless, standing ashamed for their children's act but their patience, long-steadiness, love, trust and togetherness that they had for their children has made them to reach heights and attain milestones.

Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

The reflective moral oughtness to share was the long-sighted, steadiness, constant love and trust with prayers and faith in God can change any kind of human being in this world which my parents did for several years to make me as a human. Moreover, what I personally learnt was only by respecting and loving parents, making them proud for what they have done for us throughout our life can be the door to inherit blessings and long years in this earth!

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